Hi Saundthorpe,
I know your beliefs are held very sincerely, so I'm reluctant to say they are wrong, especially since they are so well articulated. I think though that it's worth mentioning that it is only one idea of heaven,
I think it's been said so often, but that it is true, that seperation from God is hell, and connection with God is heaven.
This of course doesn't need a seperate place, other than the human heart.