Like you, Martin, I don't agree with what Jan offers here, not because it isn't scientific, but because of what I have seen of it and the damage it does to people.

What Jan believes has not turned her into a homophobe, or someone who thinks that God would be justified in consigning people to eternal torture.  Nor is she someone who tries to justify the oppressive treatment of women found in the Old Testament - all of which I have seen you do.  I have every respect for the loving person that Jan is, and very little for what your religion has turned you into.