T, not all husbands are as useless domestically as you are saying yours is!

Now did I say they were? My sons-in-law do their fair share.

My husband was a teacher, then head teacher, he worked long hours even taking work on holiday with him . He also did three of his four degrees after we were married and had kids, so had precious little time for the nitty gritty of domesticity. As soon as the children got interesting he did all the fun stuff with them that I didn't have time to do.