Martin - we have been through all this before (repeatable observation under controled conditions in order to investigate) - and websites have been suggested/shared for you to check out as well as the suggestion that you go yourself to a spiritualist church to experience what goes on. If you don't wish to do that or checkout the websites - then there is nothing more I can say to you than I have already said (hence me saying that I think we are done here now Martin). You just going on like this with the same old same old isn't really taking this thread anywhere is it.

Now you seem like a reasonable catch for any man or woman on a similar wavelength to you-  but I am happily married and ... not really on your wavelength