Jan...
Ecu 'What do you mean?'
Jan 'what do YOU mean?' ......
All I can say is that these are ten rules I certainly TRY to live by - though I do have problems with one or two of them - and with one o two people because there are only a couple of them that I DO have problems with!
(Said people are very close to me and have no ability to understand that someone could possibly actually DO this - they are born worriers!