I remember there was a kid died at my (boarding) prep school - I must have been about 11. There was no though of councilor 'being brought in'. We were simply told it had happened, and that if anyone wanted to talk about it any of the staff would be happy to do so... I don't know if anyone took up the offer, though it was definitely discussed with class-mates. Mind you, it must have made a bit of an impact cos I can still remember the boy's name...