That should have read April 1991 not 2001!!!

On the original point....I've also heard, from my Aunt, how "we were all evacuated during the war - didn't see our parents for 2 years and there was no "counselling rubbish" for us".....she doesn't think I should be going to "professionals" - she thinks things should be dealt with "within the family"....I told her that surely the fact that there IS professional help available (sometimes!!) now, when it's NEEDED, is progress.....she still doesn't agree...!! I used to think it was just that generation, but it isn't - it's just individual opinion!